Top 5 Questions To Ask An Online Date


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Cyber stalking is on the rise but by taking just a few precautions you can protect yourself from a stalker and perhaps find the one you are looking for. One way to do this is to learn as much about a person as you possibly can before you meet in person. I cannot emphasize this enough.

The response to the following Questions will help you learn more about the person and to decide if he/she is one you would like to meet in person. Going through this process is important for both men and women.

• What do you think is the biggest mistake people make when first dating? (This will give you an idea as to how the other person really feels about the opposite sex.)

• What do you look for in a man/woman? (Be aware of canned banter. If they come off with the usual “sense of humor, nice personality,” they probably haven’t thought much about a real answer.)

• Define a truly successful relationship. (This one is my favorites, listen for blaming of others. Hint: A truly successful relationship is where both get a better sense of self, whether they stay together or not.)

• What happened with your last relationship? (Again, listen for blaming. Do they take responsibility for the breakup? If they’re willing to share equally, great, if they take all of the blame they probably have low self esteem and are needy. If they won’t take any of the blame they are control freaks and probably cruel.)

• What do you really think about online dating services? (This response will let you know if they are desperate, open, or controlling.)

If you are satisfied with the responses and want to meet the person great! But just to be safe, be sure to meet your date in a public area and stay in a public space for the first date. Do not let them know where you live and be aware of giving leading information out while in a chat room. If this is someone you want to have a relationship with there will be plenty of time to share information after meeting.

Don’t be afraid of dating on line, just be aware of the risks and take the proper precautions before meeting in person.
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